..He said, he can better. The question is can HE do better for HIMSELF to get someone better than me? The future will have the answer until then girl, work your ass off!!!
Ladies, (men too of course)...our heart is one special organ that we need to take care of. Not just health wise but also by the emotions we go through and will go. We gotta go smart about it too. I mean we all have or will soon have that special LOVE that will make us cry like there was no tomorrow. But one thing I can assure you is that, that love that made you cry will soon become a strength in you that you won't let a person take advantage.
You'll know the difference from when the other person is just into games. I have meet a quite few handsome guys in my life and the downfall in some of these men was that they couldn't keep it real. That's one thing, we need to be. Real. If all they want is s*x then let them say it. Nothing wrong in saying it, accepting it, thats on you.
I know, in teens is harder when it comes to that LOVE they have, I been there and probably all those adults some of you don't get along with, have gone through it too. Just that some adults don't remember the "feeling(s)". That's one thing, teens think that adults don't understand them but we do. Just that some don't REMEMBER those exact feelings your going through. Being that we been there done that, it makes it surely easy and with an assurance to say that "you will get over it". No matter where the road takes you, you will remember but look forward. Just remember that there is a tomorrow and there's more fishes in the sea. Some of them will seem better than others but you, as you grow will know the type of person you will like to love.
Some say, that we can't control whom we love? and I wonder why is that. Since alot of people don't like to be told what to do or like to be in charge...then why not be in charge of who you fall in love with? it is YOUR emotion, your heart. Don't you have a say in whom you want to spend your life with? Since some saying all you need is love...what about assurance, what about trust, or communication. I mean sure love is in the list but we also need to be sure of the other person. Your not gonna tell me your in love with someone who just can't seem to stay in one job becuase he doesn't like to be told what to do. Ummmmm, yea its called Go get a higher degree for a better position then. Unless they dealing drugs i don't know the ranks in that. Then theres we can't control our emotions...? Really...Your telling me I have total control of who ever is reading this and turn their moment upside dowm? If you answer yes, your right. I can say or probably have said a few things and not be in that persons good list. But then again, should I care and just keep writing? I mean this is MY blog, my opinion. As you have, I also have an opinion. But ok lets get back to track.
There are times when I hear that you can't control who you love but I also wonder, why can't we. If I can walk away from a stranger calling me names, or some pervert in the train...or even stop myself from having a fling with a guy who ain't worth it, then why can't I control my Love part?
For me, personally, the first love is a big one. No control. Yep, no control. BUT afte that I believe we do have some control in that. Because we do have priorities, we don't fall in love with a married man. Now if you say, why is not you planned it, then your wrong. How did you fall in love with a married man...you must have spent time with him to get to know him. Why would you in the first place if he is already taken? So in that situation you can definately control yourself and keep walking.
Fishes are many, some are tangled in their own wines of their own homes, while others roam around finding other fishes or ducking from sharks...those are the bigger types of fishes that know what they want and probably would have the balls to tell you, its simply pleasure no emotions included and have a steady way of living life that when it comes down to love, settle down, they are man enough to accept they love you too.. Now those, if your lucky grab one and study them. He's single then don't let go because some other fish out there will.
Love is so beautiful and if you look closely you can hear it. Just be patient when meeting someone, it doesn't work out, move on to other fishes. Just be clean about it and hold your head up high no matter what. Until then, see you next time.
xoxoxo
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