You know what hurts the most, when someone who says things to you so simple but hurts deep down. We can brush it off and sometimes even the strongest has invincible tears that show those also unseen the emotional part. What I don’t get it is when someone says they are “respectful” and “treat a woman right” but later along the line, I hear words that are not respectful or make her feel wanted or loved or even friendly. I know we have our days but then again, how would I know your having one of those days? And how would you know that if those words being said has reminded of a past I was trying to forget and you, less than a second brought it back to life. How can a person move on with someone like this near?
Brushing things off is a great way I usually deal with things and I just keep walking. But what happens if it happens with someone I didn’t think it would? Or with a friend whom I thought wasn’t going to throw negatives back at me, dealing not with them but within myself. Was it or is it still wrong to confide in people theses days? For me, yes. And no. Some portray the nice friend one and healthy wise but one little mistake, one teeny weenie mistake can make you go WW3 to WW4 then, I need to question this thing we call friendship
Because you never done knowing or learning from the other, we should be careful what we say to each other. Good and bad stuff. Because closed doors hold a lot of stuff in you can’t just simply assume a happy smiling all day person to be a sunshine’s. Maybe behind those doors she’s/he’s a wreck. So next time someone wants to say a few words, think before you speak. You might just trigger that bullet and your names tattooed to the fine print.

"Nobody can hurt me without my permission."   — Mahatma Gandhi