Just because we tend to be smiling all day doesn't mean our nights are romantic.
Because I care a lot doesn't mean we don't feel any other way.
My happiness does bring tears not of joy sometimes.
And because its all open in the silence of our comfortability, its scares even the darkness.
RIP Robin Williams.
You are not alone! and you and you!!
Stay Stong,
-sweetmanhattangirl-
You are an amazing person. Just because you had a downfall in life doesn't mean you can't stand up again. You were strong enough for yesterday's news now imagine how strong you'll become for tomorrow's agenda! Keep going!!!
-sweetmanhattangirl-
Life is not that bad if you don't focus on those negatives all the times. We have sunshines, we have rains, thunders, animals, love, clouds. We have food, drinks and places we can enjoy with our friends and family. We get our alone time from time to time, and if you have a place to sleep then by all means your richer than you think. Don't mourn on yesterdays bad news, enjoy today because it does bring something good. Just stop and pay close attention and you'll find the goodness in it, or maybe even within you. Don't rush into the day to finish, enjoy the time of today. Tomorrow we don't know what's going to happen. So enjoy this moment.
I like this picture because I love the rain. The rain calms me down and it remind me of the night, right before bed. A time to unwind, relax and just be home. No worries because our flowers are getting watered and some of us are splashing on the puddles. I love rain. I'll pick rain than a hot summer day.
Thanks for reading,
-sweetmanhattangirl-
Good afternoon Sunshines!!!
You know many of us need to be in a relationship to feel loved, or feel we're doing something. I know you know your already loved but when it comes to "proving" your love or worth to someone ehhhhhhh makes me cringe. I mean, it does take time for us to know who's real or not BUT do you think that proving every now and then about who you are needs to be repeated? Do you think that staying in a relationship that belittles you (and we should know some signs maybe this small article helps: CLICK HERE), you need to re-establish that you are worth it? Well, my opinion, NO!
Why in the world would you accept by staying with someone who doesn't give a 10cents about what you really are about. It goes to females and males, we all know that it goes both ways. If someone doesn't respect you then why would YOU THINK they will change because your staying, no. It doesn't work like that. They keep doing it and getting to do as they please because you are staying…showing them you are accepting that negative behavior.
Yes, I know, I can hear some of you saying…"But I "love" him/her."
Read this clearly:::: You may "love" this person BUT does this person "love" you?
Now repeat that! Your telling me that those negative actions, those negatives words, are coming from a person who loves you? If you "love" this person you wouldn't hurt them right? of course not. But now turn the table, ask him/her that question and I bet you that you already know the answer.
So why forcing that person to see that you are worth it, why forcing life to give you this person that is literally pushing themselves AWAY from you. Let it go!!! LET IT GO!!! Your worth it. I know it and you know. The person who knows it will treat you with the respect you need in life just for that 2am call.
Let it go and walk away.
I know there may be obstacles standing in the way, maybe kids, Hey I been there. Walk away! Your kids are worth it. And the longer you stay the more your kids will be taught how to treat you and others. Don't like the sound of that? Do yourself a favor, do what you have to do and keep moving forward.
YOUR WORTH IT!!!
Thanks for reading,
-sweetmanhattangirl-
