Peculiar Amor?

Love:  Love is an emotion of strong affection and personal attachment.  (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Love)


How many of you need someone else to feel loved? Meaning, as a partner. Now I’m not talking about you say “no I don’t need someone” then a week later you are thinking you need a bf or gf. I’m talking about how many of you feel that you need someone else there for you to hug you, to call you…to love you? I’m assuming everyone is nodding their heads because everyone needs love. But now-a-days people tend to just accept who ever comes in their way. In order to feel the love or to say they have someone. This is not about that, what I am trying to say is, why can’t we feel full enough to meet someone to feel even fuller…fuller of love, fuller of more hugs. I know a few people who “need” to feel the love from another human being. They mourn like someone close to them has perished. But, take a look at yourself, do you think someone who is in the right place in their life, a person who is ready to give love because they have enough to share, would be with someone who everyday mourns? Or with someone that with one simple argument turns you into a total opposite person and who knows what you will do when you each go to work? I mean, I know there’s special love out there. Love that will accept just how you are. But maybe you’re looking for a certain love that is not suitable for you right now. Maybe the love you need to give and receive right now is from those around you. Maybe like your mom, dad or even your kids. Could be from anyone. Ok let’s make an example:

Married couple with children. They both work, kids are good in school. Both grandmothers alive, united family. Sisters, brothers, cousins, good friends…etc. But within all this one can feel lonely, but a mom of her true love and word will try her very best to make sure she is full in heart, mind, body and soul with Faith, to make herself happy with what she has, with your own little ones. She’s falling in love with another man. Now, yes it does happen but my question would be. Why would you if the person your with, husband/partner, is still in your same bed? Walks around like all is peachy, plays the role of “wifey” but then again sees another “love”. Then you go to bed with your partner but yet you cry because you “love” someone else. *laughs* this laugh is not joyful, it’s a laugh of “WTF” is wrong with you. You have a partner, you have your kids, a home, and a family and yet you need to act in a vicious way to bring down what you wanted a few years back, a family. Other girls would love to be in your place and cherish that.
Some of us “try” to change or thinks if no one gives them the chance then why bother to change. C’mon ladies, we are strong individuals that change for us, according to our terms. You don’t need some other humans’ approval or acceptance in order to show any types of changes you’re going through. A women who wants something for her better, gets it. But I am not saying like that little story I just typed, fix what you have first to open another chapter in your life. And if you’re in that position, think of what your teaching your kids. Yes, they do see and hear what your doing. Remember what you heard or seen, exactly.
Many would probably criticize of what I say but hey, it’s my blog and opinions are welcomed. Being single doesn’t mean you are not worthy of finding that special someone, for me it means. You are molding your life, your emotions, your love so when that special arrives you’ll know how to react in accordance. There’s no handbook for love but I know that in my road, with God by my side, I am being molded a good way to appreciate a good man. Because many have those sweet simple love but for me, I want that weird goofy peculiar love. That love that makes me say “OMG I would have never thought of that”. A love that is not only based of the big things but the simple ones. That even a simple walk will makes us grow fonder of each other. A love that is speechless in a peculiar way.

One day we all will find that special love. the love that we need at the right moment. And with Faith, we will get it. Just have patience, and along the way make the right choices, behave, so when it’s here. You can have your head up high and know that your road is safe to retrace.

Peculiar love is what I think I need. At the right time, I’ll know and feel safe to accept it. Till next time friends.

xoxo -sweetmanhattangirl-