Sometimes we get confused about not saying what’s on our minds and then were you right in saying it. In this post I’ll try and get to the point. I have a hard time in saying what I feel to people because I’m usually concern about their feelings. I don’t like making people feel uncomfortable when I’m around. But it has come now that that’s a problem for me. I been taking care of others feelings when in fact who has been taking care of mines?
No one. Of what I have known. So I have been telling the “what’s on my mind” part to the world. Well not the world, certain occasions that I need to in order to have better communication. But I am trying and is going very well so far. I know not all is going to be peachy but we do have to try and better ourselves, somehow.
I kow many of us haven't had the chance to say what's on your mind but we need to take that chance. Not in a bad, negative way but respectful way. If its going to help you then you do it because its your feelings. Just wanted to write this down because I have been trying hard on this. Many have not taken it well but if you come to think of it, they have a problem with accepting others saying no to them or basically telling them what they did is wrong. So remember...Say what you feel respectfully and what they feel is their choice.
You give the output and they way they take it is their problem not yours.
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