I may go out a little more than usual from what I wanted to say but, of course, no real names due to respect. I never understood how a person can want another and expect more from what they, themselves give. I mean, I know we all have to try and reach higher than usual but lets be conscious and respect the other person as well. From experience, if I give you the time of day to reply to your messages and be neat to go out because you said its a fancy place and you show up with old sneakers, then I will rethink about what you are about. Not because those sneakers are old, but there's something missing from what your projecting out. If I go out my way to wear cute shoes and a dazzling necklace and your shirt screams gym time, hahahah (real laugh), then I will definetly, rethink about 'us'. If we both try then we, together can make it. At least to some level of understanding.
Another thing, if your partner wants to end what ever you have together and you ask for another chance...AND are given another BUT still act the same. you lost already. C'mon that person gave you another chance, why mess it up, if you really wanted to be back. That second chance meant more effort coming from you who wanted the 2nd chance, more effort into knowing and realizing what was missing from the first time and actually trying to make it. And when I mean try, it doesn't mean today then tomorrow no. Or that the person giving you the chance has to wait a whole year to see a difference. So lets be mindful and accept that certains things we did with our Ex's doesn't need to be repeated with the next. Unless you have proof, the person is still around because of it.
I'm not bashing anyone out just making sure that I wasn't going crazy with some people I have meet. I know it takes a while to meet someone to grow old with but along the way, we may meet some crazies. Some of them actually make me laugh till this very day. With them...and at them.
I don't regret or treat them negative, I just accept the fact that the world has many different personalities that we may never understand. So we just...move on. So when I do and we agree to be friends and I just randomly say something like, 'so what's down'..they don't do/say nothing. I mean,. THINK. Seriously, just THINK. Everyone says 'what's up' so I sometimes just say the opposite of the usual...'what's down'. Now the way you take it its your problem. If its funny I'll laugh. But if its not, I'll still laugh at you. :-) Eightor way, we are having fun. The downside, some just don't get it. So that sweet little person that understands more about a certain type of humor doesn't come out to everyone. If she does, consider yourself lucky. You Lucky dog you, but it doesn't matter if you don't get it. Its a part of me you'll need to understand and appreciate as you get to know me, and when you do, I'll know. Then we'll just skip around the world and end up in the Grand Canyon singing and dancing to the lyrics to "Everyday I'm Shufflin" by LMFAO.
Won't that be a nice picture? ;-)
xoxo
-sweetmanhattangirl-
Now who in the world would understand me and my neurons. I think when I find someone, other than my mini-me, who can stimulate my brain to make more 'orange juice from lemons' then I have lived. Well, not exactly. But that's another story.
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